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Confronting racism
I grew up in a working class family. My father worked in a steel mill in Bethlehem PA. There was no overt racism in my childhood home. In fact sometimes there were AA at picnics at our house during the summer. But my father was a racist. He liked his racist, sexist, and anti gay humor. The sexist or anti gay humor was acceptable t anytime. The racist humor only among the whites. Of course I don't disown him. I don't reject or denounce him ove the jokes he found funny.
After leaving home after spending a few years overseas when I returned home I confronted my father over one of his jokes. It wasn't angry. I didn't condemn him. I just simply told him I wasn't into that type of humor and I wished he wouldn't tell those jokes around me. He stopped telling me those jokes and that was the end of it. I was about the same age Obama was when he joined Wright's church. I'm older than Obama is now.
Over the years there have been other times where I have dont the some with friends or acquaintances at get togethers or work. Not every time, probably not nearly as often as I could have. But those many times when I didn't have the energy to deal with racist rhetoric and humor, those times I kept silent, I did in fact keep silent. I didn't laugh along or play along to get along.
I am no crusader for equal rights, I'm not a saint. I'm sure many have done the same as I. I'm sure many have spoken up now and then when exposed to racism.
Personally I don't see how I could have stayed in Wright's church for 20 years not matter what the good works done there. But if i had weighed the good and the bad and decided to stay I don't see how I could have stayed silent for 20 years. At least now and then I would have been moved to say something, to mention to Wright that he had gone to far or that I was uncomfortable with something said.
Obama makes no mention of ever saying a word over 20 years to Wright about his discomfort or disagreement with anything Wright said. Its hard to believe he wouldn't have mentioned it in his speech if he had at sometime even gently confronted him.
This puzzles me. How could Obama stay silent for 20 years and listen to statements he said , "have the potential not only to widen the racial divide, but views that denigrate both the greatness and the goodness of our nation; that rightly offend white and black alike" and yet at no time even express his discomfort to Wright? That's a level of passivity that is disquieting.
After leaving home after spending a few years overseas when I returned home I confronted my father over one of his jokes. It wasn't angry. I didn't condemn him. I just simply told him I wasn't into that type of humor and I wished he wouldn't tell those jokes around me. He stopped telling me those jokes and that was the end of it. I was about the same age Obama was when he joined Wright's church. I'm older than Obama is now.
Over the years there have been other times where I have dont the some with friends or acquaintances at get togethers or work. Not every time, probably not nearly as often as I could have. But those many times when I didn't have the energy to deal with racist rhetoric and humor, those times I kept silent, I did in fact keep silent. I didn't laugh along or play along to get along.
I am no crusader for equal rights, I'm not a saint. I'm sure many have done the same as I. I'm sure many have spoken up now and then when exposed to racism.
Personally I don't see how I could have stayed in Wright's church for 20 years not matter what the good works done there. But if i had weighed the good and the bad and decided to stay I don't see how I could have stayed silent for 20 years. At least now and then I would have been moved to say something, to mention to Wright that he had gone to far or that I was uncomfortable with something said.
Obama makes no mention of ever saying a word over 20 years to Wright about his discomfort or disagreement with anything Wright said. Its hard to believe he wouldn't have mentioned it in his speech if he had at sometime even gently confronted him.
This puzzles me. How could Obama stay silent for 20 years and listen to statements he said , "have the potential not only to widen the racial divide, but views that denigrate both the greatness and the goodness of our nation; that rightly offend white and black alike" and yet at no time even express his discomfort to Wright? That's a level of passivity that is disquieting.
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Thank you for your great post.
What he said to Wright during their 20 year friendship is about his judgement.
What he has done or proposed in this race to bridge the racial divide is a about leadership.
He simply used his silver tongue to talk his way out of a potential political disaster.
March 20, 2008 8:36 AM | Reply | Permalink
I understand your concern. However, I really feel we all have to truly consider what a "normal" Sunday service was like.
The first clip comes from a very difficult time for everyone. After 9-11 tempers ran high. This is no excuse for hate rhetoric, but it is an unusual circumstance.
The second speech he gave in what sounds like a response to anger over the idea that he feels Obama is winning, but Clinton will take the nomination.
(before anyone gets mad here I realize that these are the rules and she has every right to try everything she can, however if we are being honest a majority of black people will probably see it as racist if he wins the delegates and she wins the nomination.)
My point is that these are two small clips, Obama admits he has heard controversial things from the man. However there's a difference between "being oppressed by the man" controversial and the kind of controversial in these speeches.
I really think that in order to judge this we need more information on what Obama really would have heard if he attended on a regular Sunday.
I must admit that I am skeptical of the idea that his sermons were always racist, or even normally racist. Sermons in big churches get video taoed a lot. I need to see more then a minute and a half of video to belive this man was always this way.
March 20, 2008 8:39 AM | Reply | Permalink
On Dan Abrams show the other night (I think it was Tuesday), I heard a white female commentator say that she'd talked to friends of hers who attended TUCC (Obama's church). This commentator said that the regular Sunday sermons were more like Sunday sermons everywhere - not these sorts of snippets being played over and over.
We've seen about 3-5 minutes of preaching from this man who has a career spanning 30 years (including the 20 years Obama has attended Trinity) - that's about 0.01% of his total preaching - or one ten thousandth. I think if we judge candidates (or their supporters for that matter) on one ten thousandth of the public speeches of their supporters, we won't have any candidates left.
For the record, I don't think Geraldine Ferraro deserved to be pilloried for her initial statement, nor did Samantha Powers for her "monster" slip. I don't think Bill Clinton (or Hillary Clinton) is a racist becasue of the Jesse Jackson comment or the fairy tale comment.
I also think we ought to make distinctions between what candidates say on the stump, what their surrogates say on the stump, and what their supporters say in "quasi-private" settings - e.g. in a church to their own congregation, on a blog, etc. Sometimes the supporter's statements are months or years removed from the candidacy (in 2001, when the 9/11 comments were made, Obama wasn't running for President). Candidates have thousands or millions of supporters - no candidate can police every single statement made on their behalf.
This last point is pointed at both Obama and Hillary supporters in particular. Please look at the CANDIDATES before you decide who to vote for. By saying you will vote for McCain over Clinton because you don't like the Clinton supporters on blogs (or McCain over Obama because of the Obama bloggers), is silly.
I'm an Obama supporter. I've had my differences with Clinton and her supporters. However should she get the nomination, I will vote for her. Why? Because her POLICIES are way more sane and a better path forward for our country than McCain's. No matter who is our nominee in the fall - please remember their policies in the voting booth - not some silly resentment from some silly comment some iditot made in the blogosphere.
March 20, 2008 9:20 AM | Reply | Permalink
Briefly, both candidates -- in fact all candidates -- have shown lapses in judgment with regard to who they associate with. The fallout on Obama, perhaps, is that he was "perceived" to be above politics as usual, when in fact his style (oratory sheen aside) is much the same. Rezco/Whitewater. Ferraro/Wright. On and on.
What has driven my support of Clinton in the Democratic nomination has been twofold: one, the nuances on some of the issues. Like Clinton, I don't support illegal immigrants having driver's licenses, and I'd like a more stringent statutory-based (universal) health care program, say, like Germany, where there is no opt out but where everybody is covered.
Second, Clinton is also my senator. I feel a loyalty to and confidence in her based on her past record in my state.
The rest -- the releasing of papers, the issue of race, the questionable alliances -- become secondary to bread&butter positions and track record for me.
March 20, 2008 9:28 AM | Reply | Permalink
What the hell is an "AA"?
March 20, 2008 9:34 AM | Reply | Permalink
African American
March 20, 2008 10:30 AM | Reply | Permalink
What exactly were the racist statements that Obama should have confronted him on? Note: I'm sure I haven't seen all the clips of Wright that have been going around.
He talked about how rich white people run the country. Is that racist? It's definitely inflammatory, but is it racist?
He asked God to damn America due to its treatment of African Americans. Is that racist?
He mentioned a crazy conspiracy theory involving AIDS. Is that racist?
I'm being sincere here. What exactly were the racist statements (as opposed to just ignorant and/or inflammatory) made by Rev. Wright?
March 20, 2008 9:50 AM | Reply | Permalink
Of course it's not racist. This is hate speech. Obama turned into a big question of race himself in his speech. So he invited all the follow up on racism, his record on race relations, etc.
March 20, 2008 10:08 AM | Reply | Permalink
I never said Wright's statements were racist. But since you asked I do think the hatred expressed was at its core racially motivated. That's the only way I could explain an educated man believing and teaching his flock that the US was engaged in the creation and dissemination of HIV to infect the blacks. His statements were clearly designed to incite anger against the white race.
My thinking on this subject was sparked by obama's juxtaposition of wright and his grandmother. "I can no more disown him than I can my white grandmother - a woman who helped raise me, a woman who sacrificed again and again for me, a woman who loves me as much as she loves anything in this world, but a woman who once confessed her fear of black men who passed by her on the street, and who on more than one occasion has uttered racial or ethnic stereotypes that made me cringe."
I began to think of my own father and some others in my life and how I had at times confronted racism similar to his grandmother's.
If it is true he believes his pastor has made statements that, "have the potential not only to widen the racial divide" and, "that rightly offend white and black alike" I wondered why he has apparently never taken any similar action to attempt to at the very least express his discomfort with the speech of his mentor.
I believe that part of change in this area comes when people are willing to speak up when friends and neighbors engage in this sort of speech. I'm certainly not proud of the times I kept silent not with standing the times I spoke up. Obama had 20 years to attempt to make his feeling known and attempt to make some small change. He didn't have to reject and denounce him in the middle of a sermon. He at least could have expressed his discomfort at some later date. That he didn't shows a lack of judgment and a passivity I find troubling.
March 20, 2008 11:41 AM | Reply | Permalink
We don't know what went on between Obama and his pastor. The fact that Obama didn't say "I called him out on this and that" doesn't mean that he didn't, it just meant that he chose to keep those things private.
Again, I think it's a stretch to say that all 20 years of the man's preaching were identical to the 3 minutes of sound bites we have heard.
March 20, 2008 12:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
In the same way I'd say it's a stretch to condemn all of Jerry Falwell's preaching for the 1 minute of time that he blamed 9/11 on the gays/fornicators/abortionists, etc.
March 20, 2008 12:11 PM | Reply | Permalink
That the people responded with applause and amens tells me that this couldn't have been that far out of the norm.
Frankly it approaches incredulity to suppose that if Obama had talked to him he would not have mentioned in his speech.
March 20, 2008 12:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm not going to defend any of Rev. Wright's statements that we have now seen many times. I will say this. I have refused throughout this whole process to take the media's word on ANYTHING, and instead have used the fabulousness of the Internet to find out myself.
When this came up, it was no different. I am wary of even posting this on here because again it is just a snippet, a soundbite, which I think are extremely detrimental to our abilities to ever see the whole picture, but here goes. I found this as part of a sermon Rev. Wright had preached on the weekend of Martin Luther King Day. I might add that I had assumed, falsely, that a church day on that weekend would hold quite a bit of talk about race. But it didn't. Here's a little excerpt.
He talks of Martin Luther King’s writing, “The Beloved Community.” An excerpt from the sermon: “Dr. King fervently believed in a community of the faithful that was not bound by denominational preferences, doctrinal drawing of lines in the sane and particular faith claims that saw one part of the family of faith being superior to another part of the family of faith. The beloved community in many ways is reflected today (in 2007) in the government of our country at its highest level.” He goes on to list the religions and churches whose members comprise members of our government: The United Methodist Church, the Catholic Church, Islam, Buddhism, Jewish, Episcopalian, Mormonism, Baptists, the various Methodist churches, United Church of Christ, and Quakers. He goes on, “Our religiously diverse Congress is best described by the Yale historian Jon Butler’s words. It is “awash in a sea of faith.” Our religiously diverse Congress reminds us of the power of religious freedom - one of America’s strongest selling points. The “Beloved Community: as demonstrated in the 110th Congress is not made up of persons who are Christian only! It is also not made up of persons who follow “traditional lines of Christian belief.” It is, however, made up of persons of faith who are a part of God’s community and who are all God’s children! Think about this as you celebrate Dr. King’s birthday through this weekend.”
I would also suggest reading the full sermon of Rev. Wright's for which Obama named his book, the first sermon Senator Obama ever heard at the church. You can read it here:
http://andrewsullivan.theatlantic.com/the_daily_dish/2008/03/for-the-record.html
I also might point out that sometimes it is when we hear statements which we most profoundly disagree with that we are provoked to the most thought.
Like I said, I won't defend the five minutes or so of statements we have heard from Rev. Wright up till now. But I also won't condemn the man for an almost infinitely small portion of his life, and I respect Senator Obama for not doing so either. I certainly wouldn't want my friends ditching me on the rare occasions when the worst in me comes out. Throwing your pastor under the bus, or anyone, certainly isn't in God's teachings. I'm not a religious person, but I know that forgiveness and acceptance is pretty high up there on the list of things I imagine might be important to God.
March 20, 2008 2:25 PM | Reply | Permalink
These snippets came from the videos the TUCC chose to offer at Rev. Wright's retirement.
At the very least some element at that church values what these videos say.
There is a virulent anger in them that lead to cruelty in the way Rev. Wright dealt with the Clintons before his congregation. For Obama to then say that he had never seen Rev. Wright in this mode in private conversation is small consolation even if true. And I cannot be sure that it is true because Obama lied about not having heard such expressions when he was in the pews: in his speech Obama then acknowledged that he had heard such while in the pews.
While I understand that the virulent racism of the past which has subsided somewhat leads to this type of virulent response (like an immune response), in some ways by directing the focus to racism Obama was performing a sleight of hand. The real problem is the attitude towards America. No matter how justified the inception of such an anger it is something that most would not want to have any part of directing policy decisions.
So if Obama doesn't share it, why didn't he confront his Pastor? Why did he choose this Pastor for a mentor? The point about the attitude is that this type of anger towards America is not something that we want to have directing our policy choices. And the answer we want is does Obama share these views or not and the question of whether Obama understands racism is somewhat irrelevant.
So in the speech Obama says I don't share these horrible views but I do understand why they developed. But we then have to assess this answer in light of Obama's failure to contest these ideas in his church.
March 20, 2008 7:23 PM | Reply | Permalink